Ok, so I haven't posted in a while. Don't judge me lol. Don't judge the fact that I slacked off on posting or that it's 4:05 am while I'm posting this...don't judge a thing...
Since my last post, not too much has happened, but I do want to share the joy of our newest addition to the fam - Sadie. She's a six-month (or close to it, according to the vet) old Jack Russell Terrier. Yeah, just like Scooter. As a matter of fact, they look a lot alike. I will be posting pics of her right here on the good ole blog soon, but I mainly just wanted to share the news.
We actually just got her on Tuesday night and the best part about it all is that she was completely free. We got her from one of the hubby's coworkers. Her son had found her on the side of the road on a day where it was storming like crazy. Long story short, she was able to track down the owners, but when she went there, they told her that they didn't want any dogs and had "gotten rid of her". Some people are just so cruel... Why would you leave your dog on the side of the road? Why not take it to the humane society if you sooooo don't care about the animal? Oh well, what's done is done...
And, for Scooter to have such dog-on-dog aggression issues, him and Sadie are getting along just great... Those two are amazing. My mom asked me when am I going to have "real" kids. You know, that's a good question....
Saturday, October 24, 2009
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Who Am I?
Remember when you were just a kid and your teacher would ask you to do some sort of assignment that was centered around defining yourself as a person? These were most likely called "Who Am I?" projects. You may have even done many of them in your life.
Well, I'm having my non-school related who am I moment. Would you believe that after all of these years, I have not really found myself as a person. Since I've been an adult, I have probably been one of the most indecisive, clueless, and all around just confused person that you know (if you know me, that is). My life has changed directions so many times and I'm not totally prepared for any steps in either direction.
I still struggle with my career goals and what I REALLY want to do with my life. I have also been dealing with self-esteem issues. This, of course, stems from being one of the bigger girls in school. On top of that, I never considered myself a pretty bigger girl (you know the ones that folks say have a cute face even though they have a big body). I never got that. I guess it's similar to people who have the light skinned vs. dark skinned debate. I just don't understand why a big girl can't just be cute / beautiful / fine / etc. Why do they have to be "cute for a big girl"? Granted, like I said, I was never told I was "cute for a big girl" so I guess that's neither here nor there.
So, I think one of the biggest reasons I struggle with figuring out who in the world I am is because I haven't truly accepted myself as a beautiful person. I often lean on other people to make me feel better about myself when, truthfully, I should be pumping myself up. This is something I HAVE to work on though. Moreso now than ever before. Why? Well, the biggest driving factor for me accepting my size / weight was Mo'Nique. She is my role model 100%. Well, now she's losing weight. Tyra has lost so much weight right after telling everyone to kiss her fat ass. It makes me feel better when I see famous people dealing with these sorts of issues because they normally have "the perfect body". When I see them getting closer to my side of the tracks, I actually get a little bit excited. But, that time is over. Everyone wants to be healthy at this point (which is a very good thing) and I'm getting lost in the shuffle.
This is a horrible time to be trying to find yourself, I know, but I think it's important that I get to know myself because it will ultimately help me be a better wife to my husband (I know I said I wouldn't bring up relationships, but this is a special case lol). So, as I sit here looking at my double chin, rolls on my stomach, and thunder thighs, I'm trying to get happy with it all. Or, of course, do something about it.
Thanks for your time today and listening so well...
TTYL!
Well, I'm having my non-school related who am I moment. Would you believe that after all of these years, I have not really found myself as a person. Since I've been an adult, I have probably been one of the most indecisive, clueless, and all around just confused person that you know (if you know me, that is). My life has changed directions so many times and I'm not totally prepared for any steps in either direction.
I still struggle with my career goals and what I REALLY want to do with my life. I have also been dealing with self-esteem issues. This, of course, stems from being one of the bigger girls in school. On top of that, I never considered myself a pretty bigger girl (you know the ones that folks say have a cute face even though they have a big body). I never got that. I guess it's similar to people who have the light skinned vs. dark skinned debate. I just don't understand why a big girl can't just be cute / beautiful / fine / etc. Why do they have to be "cute for a big girl"? Granted, like I said, I was never told I was "cute for a big girl" so I guess that's neither here nor there.
So, I think one of the biggest reasons I struggle with figuring out who in the world I am is because I haven't truly accepted myself as a beautiful person. I often lean on other people to make me feel better about myself when, truthfully, I should be pumping myself up. This is something I HAVE to work on though. Moreso now than ever before. Why? Well, the biggest driving factor for me accepting my size / weight was Mo'Nique. She is my role model 100%. Well, now she's losing weight. Tyra has lost so much weight right after telling everyone to kiss her fat ass. It makes me feel better when I see famous people dealing with these sorts of issues because they normally have "the perfect body". When I see them getting closer to my side of the tracks, I actually get a little bit excited. But, that time is over. Everyone wants to be healthy at this point (which is a very good thing) and I'm getting lost in the shuffle.
This is a horrible time to be trying to find yourself, I know, but I think it's important that I get to know myself because it will ultimately help me be a better wife to my husband (I know I said I wouldn't bring up relationships, but this is a special case lol). So, as I sit here looking at my double chin, rolls on my stomach, and thunder thighs, I'm trying to get happy with it all. Or, of course, do something about it.
Thanks for your time today and listening so well...
TTYL!
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Recession Excuses? Gimme a Break...
So, how many people are tired of companies using the economy as an excuse for everything?
We all know that unemployment rates are skyrocketing due to the current state of the economy. Everyone is trying to cut costs and make better financial decisions. This is understandable, as I understand companies want to stay in business. However, I think it is beyond tacky to use the economy as an excuse to provide your customers with crappy service.
Take one of my former credit card companies for example:
I called them to inquire about why my transactions in my online history did not add up to my current balance (the balance was higher). I was told by the rep that my $59 annual fee had been charged. In the grand scheme of things, a $59 fee is not terrible. However, if your card has a not so great interest rate (compared to other cards you carry), your lowest credit limit, and has not given you even one (small) credit limit increase since you've had it, that $59 can seem like a waste.
So, when I try to ask the rep if the fee can be waived, he says no. Then I go on with my whole spiel about how the card is crappy (I didn't use the word crappy, but you get my drift) and is doing nothing for me at this point. I then ask him about the possibility of a credit limit increase. He told me they are "not giving any credit limit increases at this time due to the economy". Granted, I know that all companies are struggling, but what kind of crap is that? You expect me to be sensitive to your financial situation but you ignore mine by charging me a ridiculous fee with no possibility of waiving it? I don't think so. Not happening. I work hard for my money, and I will be damned if I just give it away for nothingness. Needless to say, I closed the account. I'd much rather deal with companies who don't use the economy as an excuse for offering nothing to their customer base.
I'm so sick of this economy...not just because of the current circumstances (which are very jacked up) but also because everyone keeps using it as an excuse for everything under the sun.
We all know that unemployment rates are skyrocketing due to the current state of the economy. Everyone is trying to cut costs and make better financial decisions. This is understandable, as I understand companies want to stay in business. However, I think it is beyond tacky to use the economy as an excuse to provide your customers with crappy service.
Take one of my former credit card companies for example:
I called them to inquire about why my transactions in my online history did not add up to my current balance (the balance was higher). I was told by the rep that my $59 annual fee had been charged. In the grand scheme of things, a $59 fee is not terrible. However, if your card has a not so great interest rate (compared to other cards you carry), your lowest credit limit, and has not given you even one (small) credit limit increase since you've had it, that $59 can seem like a waste.
So, when I try to ask the rep if the fee can be waived, he says no. Then I go on with my whole spiel about how the card is crappy (I didn't use the word crappy, but you get my drift) and is doing nothing for me at this point. I then ask him about the possibility of a credit limit increase. He told me they are "not giving any credit limit increases at this time due to the economy". Granted, I know that all companies are struggling, but what kind of crap is that? You expect me to be sensitive to your financial situation but you ignore mine by charging me a ridiculous fee with no possibility of waiving it? I don't think so. Not happening. I work hard for my money, and I will be damned if I just give it away for nothingness. Needless to say, I closed the account. I'd much rather deal with companies who don't use the economy as an excuse for offering nothing to their customer base.
I'm so sick of this economy...not just because of the current circumstances (which are very jacked up) but also because everyone keeps using it as an excuse for everything under the sun.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Dr. King's Dream Fulfilled ? No, I Don't Think So (Never did)
On that day in November 2008 that it was announced that Barack H. Obama was to be the next president of the United States, I was elated. In this post, I just want to go into a bit of why I was so excited and more importantly some common misconceptions people had on and shortly after that day.
Being from Illinois, I was familiar with Barack Obama as a state senator. I would even venture to say that I was probably more familiar with him than many others from other parts of the country. On top of knowing him as a senator, I did have the rare pleasure to go see him speak in person at a local school my senior year of high school (I graduated a little over 4 years ago).
I did vote for Obama, and I'm not ashamed to let any and every one know. I did not vote for him just because he is black, democrat, etc., I voted for him based on the things I knew about his campaign and the direction it would be taking.
Once I found out Obama was elected President of the United States, I was speechless. I could not believe that the same America who cheated to get ex-President Bush into office for both of his terms elected a BLACK PRESIDENT! This was serious business. While many on TV were boasting that Dr. King's dream had finally been fulfilled. I begged to differ on all counts. Granted, the country was making excellent progress, but this event was only the tip of the iceberg.
After his inauguration in January, we have seen many things happen to our president. To name two very popular incidents, we have the PETA incident with the fly (how ridiculous is that, people?!!) and most recently Senator Joe Wilson telling the President that he's a lie! As many have already said - this most likely would not have happened had President Obama been of the Caucasian persuasion. But, they are giving our brother a very hard time here.
And you know what....it really pisses me off!
That is all.
Vent over.
:)
Being from Illinois, I was familiar with Barack Obama as a state senator. I would even venture to say that I was probably more familiar with him than many others from other parts of the country. On top of knowing him as a senator, I did have the rare pleasure to go see him speak in person at a local school my senior year of high school (I graduated a little over 4 years ago).
I did vote for Obama, and I'm not ashamed to let any and every one know. I did not vote for him just because he is black, democrat, etc., I voted for him based on the things I knew about his campaign and the direction it would be taking.
Once I found out Obama was elected President of the United States, I was speechless. I could not believe that the same America who cheated to get ex-President Bush into office for both of his terms elected a BLACK PRESIDENT! This was serious business. While many on TV were boasting that Dr. King's dream had finally been fulfilled. I begged to differ on all counts. Granted, the country was making excellent progress, but this event was only the tip of the iceberg.
After his inauguration in January, we have seen many things happen to our president. To name two very popular incidents, we have the PETA incident with the fly (how ridiculous is that, people?!!) and most recently Senator Joe Wilson telling the President that he's a lie! As many have already said - this most likely would not have happened had President Obama been of the Caucasian persuasion. But, they are giving our brother a very hard time here.
And you know what....it really pisses me off!
That is all.
Vent over.
:)
Saturday, September 12, 2009
September 11th in Memory + Tyler Perry
So, today is September 11 (well, it's technically September 12, but my day hasn't ended yet so bear with me). Today it is only appropriate for me to pay some respects to those who lost their loved ones and those whose lives were lost 8 years ago. As I think back, it's hard to believe that one of the US's biggest tragedies happened 8 years ago.
I remember the exact day that it happened and exactly what I was doing. I was a freshman in high school at the time and we were all called into the auditorium for a special announcement. During that brief assembly, we were told that for the top students, there would be an all-expense paid trip to Washington, D.C. -- on a plane.
Right after that, one of the Assistant Pricipals came onto the stage to inform us that a plane had crashed into the World Trade Center in New York. Our entire class was, naturally, not too keen on riding on an airplane at that point.
That's what happened 8 years ago (it's hard to believe that it's been that long)...
Also, today marked the debut for Tyler Perry's newest film - "I Can Do Bad All By Myself". The movie was pretty good, and I would recommend that everyone see it. I do have the following gripes, though:
* Not enough Madea (is there EVER enough Madea?)
* Sad scenes were not that sad because it was not belieavable that the characters were sad
* Not enough bloopers in the end (did I mention, I LOVE the outtakes?)
Other than that (and without revealing too much of the movie), I will recommend that you go see it if you have not.
Monday, September 7, 2009
My B-Day Weekend in Summary
Well, my 23rd birthday was on Friday (September 4). The events of the week kept me pumped from beginning to end. Here's what I was excited about:
Here's what really happened:
Why didn't I do the other things? Well, the hubby opted not to go to the open mic this past week. I didn't want to go without him, but I did let him know that in two weeks, I'm going with or without him.
We did make it to Chicago's Arie Crown Theater for the 2pm performance of The Color Purple, and just as we were waiting for the show to start, we found out that Fantasia had fallen ill and would not be performing. Well, she's sick. That's fine. But, I paid my money to see Fantasia (extra money as a matter of fact), so I want my money back. Me and half of the crowd stormed out to demand our monies back at the box office (see video below).
I have read many comments online stating that Fantasia does not make or break the show. In this case, she does though. When the regular shows tickets cost $47.50 and you pay double that for your tickets to see a specific performer, it's serious. Also, when you drive five hours to see that specific performer, it's serious. Come on now people! I can be very understanding of her sick day but at least credit me the difference between "regular" performer days and Fantasia days. (Color Purple rant over)
On a more positive note, I did get to go to lunch with my brother and his wife. We at at Chicago's Chicken and Waffles. Those of you who know me know that I love both. So, needless to say, I was pretty much in heaven.
The b-day party went very well. I was very surprised at the turnout that we had. The food was great, the music was great, the weather was great, and everyone got along for the most part. That was a happy day for me.
Now, I'm on vacation for 5 workdays (+Labor day and weekends). I will update soon my my vacation adventures.
TTYL.
- Fresh Air Open Mic on Wednesday
- The Color Purple in Chicago (starring Fantasia) on Saturday
- B-Day Party on Sunday
Here's what really happened:
- B-Day Party on Sunday
Why didn't I do the other things? Well, the hubby opted not to go to the open mic this past week. I didn't want to go without him, but I did let him know that in two weeks, I'm going with or without him.
We did make it to Chicago's Arie Crown Theater for the 2pm performance of The Color Purple, and just as we were waiting for the show to start, we found out that Fantasia had fallen ill and would not be performing. Well, she's sick. That's fine. But, I paid my money to see Fantasia (extra money as a matter of fact), so I want my money back. Me and half of the crowd stormed out to demand our monies back at the box office (see video below).
I have read many comments online stating that Fantasia does not make or break the show. In this case, she does though. When the regular shows tickets cost $47.50 and you pay double that for your tickets to see a specific performer, it's serious. Also, when you drive five hours to see that specific performer, it's serious. Come on now people! I can be very understanding of her sick day but at least credit me the difference between "regular" performer days and Fantasia days. (Color Purple rant over)
On a more positive note, I did get to go to lunch with my brother and his wife. We at at Chicago's Chicken and Waffles. Those of you who know me know that I love both. So, needless to say, I was pretty much in heaven.
The b-day party went very well. I was very surprised at the turnout that we had. The food was great, the music was great, the weather was great, and everyone got along for the most part. That was a happy day for me.
Now, I'm on vacation for 5 workdays (+Labor day and weekends). I will update soon my my vacation adventures.
TTYL.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Intro to the World (Well, Sort of...)
Hi, world.
You may already know me. What? You don't? Well that's a total shock! Surely you have read my blog detailing the adventures of me and my dog?
Well, I guess I can see where you're coming from. I haven't exactly been the most active blogger on the planet. Who am I kidding? I made one or two posts and that was it. Honestly, there hasn't been very much going on with the dog in a while (this a good thing for real life - bad thing for blog world), so I haven't had much to write about over there.
Inspired by a high schoolmate (that looks weird, but oh well, we will roll with it anyway) who is also one of my facebook friends, I have decided to get back to blogging. This time, creating a site here on blogspot instead of using my own domain name.
Just to prepare you for what will happen on this blog (provided I don't completely flake out and not update regularly), here are a list of things that I will be discussing:
Actually, change of heart, it may be much easier to let you know what things I most likely WILL NOT discuss during any blog and if they come up, any surrounding discussions will be vague in detail, at best.
You may already know me. What? You don't? Well that's a total shock! Surely you have read my blog detailing the adventures of me and my dog?
Well, I guess I can see where you're coming from. I haven't exactly been the most active blogger on the planet. Who am I kidding? I made one or two posts and that was it. Honestly, there hasn't been very much going on with the dog in a while (this a good thing for real life - bad thing for blog world), so I haven't had much to write about over there.
Inspired by a high schoolmate (that looks weird, but oh well, we will roll with it anyway) who is also one of my facebook friends, I have decided to get back to blogging. This time, creating a site here on blogspot instead of using my own domain name.
Just to prepare you for what will happen on this blog (provided I don't completely flake out and not update regularly), here are a list of things that I will be discussing:
- My life
- Weird things that happen
- Interesting life changes
Actually, change of heart, it may be much easier to let you know what things I most likely WILL NOT discuss during any blog and if they come up, any surrounding discussions will be vague in detail, at best.
- Family
- Job / Career
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